1 John 2:28-3:3
Preached 10/15/2023 [Previous Sermon]
INTRODUCTION
I imagine that a few of you were surprised at the title of today’s message. “Be Yourself” is the catch-phrase of the world and its self-centered philosophies. People are always telling us they are trying to ‘find themselves’. And this is not new. Remember in Hamlet, when Polonius gave his advice to his son Laertes that it ended with “This above all—to thine own self be true.” People engage in a lifetime of self-discovery. But there are a few obvious problems with this. First, we tend to be blind to our own faults. We exalt ourselves and focus on the faults of others, and when we look at ourselves it is with rose-tinted glasses. Like the Pharisees who hated Jesus, we are self-righteous and usually of the opinion that we are far better than the average crowd of “deplorables”. Secondly, self-discovery tends to be a journey into our feelings, leading us to be one self one day and another self the next. At this point in our culture this tendency to follow Obi Wan Kenobi’s advice: “Trust your feelings, Luke!” leads many people to live in complete fantasy worlds, often leading to very dire consequences at the worst or chaotic existences at best.
Rest assured, this is not going to be a message about trusting your feelings. I don’t know about you, but my feelings have been rather disappointing over the years, and I decided long ago to consider them untrustworthy (long before I met Jesus actually). Feelings can make life more fun and exciting, but I think they should be your servant and not your master.
So what do I mean by this title? Well, I chose it because that is what I believe the apostle John meant in these verses. But he was not pointing toward our feelings at all. He was not saying that we should go out and “discover ourselves”. No, he was writing to Christians, and he is telling them three things in these verses:
- Be Who You Say You Are,
- Be Who God Says You Are, and
- Be Who You Are Destined to Be.
Before getting into the points, let’s remember where we are in this letter. Remember that John wrote his gospel first, which tells about the life of Jesus, before he wrote this letter. In that gospel, he indicated that it was written “so that you may believe that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God, and that by believing you may have life in his name.” So his gospel was written for people who do not yet believe in Jesus to show them who He is and what He did so that they might be saved. This letter, however, has a different audience and purpose, as we read in the fifth chapter of first John:
1 John 5:13 I write these things to you who believe in the name of the Son of God, that you may know that you have eternal life.
So 1 John is written to true believers for the purpose of giving them confidence in their belief. We have been going through the first two chapters and John has given tests by which we can measure the genuineness of our faith. He said that if we say we have fellowship with Him then we will not walk in darkness but in the light. We will not deny our sins but will confess them to God and repent of them. We should strive not to sin, but trust the work of Christ to be our advocate with the Father. If we have come to know Him, we will keep his commandments. We will walk in the same manner as Jesus did. We will love our brother and not hate him. We will feel the initial thrill of knowing that we are forgiven and that somehow God has become our heavenly father, but we will not stop there – we will take in God’s word and let it abide in us and we will even overcome the evil one. And in the end, we will reach maturity when we really get to know him who has been from the beginning. John also warns us that we will not love the world and its lusts, but instead we will love the Father.
And finally, we learned that a true believer will not fall away from the faith and leave the fellowship of believers, because they have been anointed by the Holy One, and they will have true knowledge of Him that will keep them in the faith. They will not deny Christ, or what the bible teaches us about Him. Therefore they will not be deceived by people who try to lead them away from the faith.
John ended all this with the warning that, just as this anointing had taught them, they should “abide (stay) in Him.” (v27) The first verse of today’s selection repeats the same command. Actually, I think we could also think of this in a descriptive way. What do I mean. Consider this: in his previous talk about the “antichrists”, or false believers, in the church, John said their main identifying characteristic was that they would fall away from Christ. So it follows that fidelity to Christ is a sign of true belief, and should give a believer assurance. In other words, if you are really saved, then you will abide in Him. So seeing the flow of thought we should get to the text.
These five verses can rightfully be viewed as a sort of parenthesis between the first part of the letter and the second. John takes a few moments to address sin and righteousness in the light of what we are before continuing with the second half of his letter of assurance. And all of this is described in the light of the glory of Christ’s return – his appearing.
I Be Who You Say You Are (2:28-29):
The first idea is simple. Jesus is coming back – are you ready? John pointed out back in verse 18 that “Antichrist is coming”, and now he reminds us that Jesus Christ is coming also. This is a sure thing, and we should be ready for it. The return of Christ is a central feature of the gospel. After Jesus ascended into heaven, an angel informed his disciples “This Jesus, who was taken up from you into heaven, will come in the same way as you saw him go into heaven.” (Act 1:11b) All over the Bible there are references to it. Half of the prophesies about Jesus in the Old Testament relate to his second coming. The Bible ends with the promise that He is “coming quickly.” Not soon, but quickly. Paul describes it as happening “in the blink of an eye”. It is a glorious time, as described in the book of Hebrews:
Hebrews 9:27-28 And just as it is appointed for man to die once, and after that comes judgment, so Christ, having been offered once to bear the sins of many, will appear a second time, not to deal with sin but to save those who are eagerly waiting for him.
A true Christian is marked by that description – we are “eagerly waiting” for Jesus. So this brings us to our text:
1 John 2:28 And now, little children, abide in him, so that when he appears we may have confidence and not shrink from him in shame at his coming.
What a picture! There are two responses to the coming of Christ – to his “appearing”. Those who abide in Christ have “confidence”. Those who don’t abide in Christ will “shrink from him in shame”. As one commentator explains, “Shame is a euphemism for the utter disgrace of a sinner.” Utter disgrace is the mark of the unsaved, not the saved.
I used to think that this was just a warning to Christians not to be doing something embarrassing when Jesus arrived. Now that is certainly a good thought (and works with 1 Jn 3:3) but in the overall context it seems that this is a description again of the assurance that a believer should have. The redeemed face the return of Christ with joy and confidence – not because of our own righteousness, but because our “advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the Righteous”, is coming to bring us to heaven as He promised, having paid our way by being “the propitiation for our sins”. (2:1-2)
Do you claim to be a Christian? John starts out by giving a two-fold description that will be true of you if you are. First, you will be looking forward to seeing Jesus, and second, you will practice righteousness. That’s in the second verse:
1 John 2:29 If you know that he is righteous, you may be sure that everyone who practices righteousness has been born of him.
We all know about the concept of “family resemblance”. If you need an example, we have a whole section of redheads in the church to illustrate the concept. Inheritance is a powerful influence in our development, but in the spiritual sense it is even more determinative. Like begets like. God’s children will be godlike.
In the next chapter John will assert this in concrete terms: “No one who is born of God practices sin, because His seed abides in him; and he cannot sin, because he is born of God.” (1 John 3:9) We will get more into the idea of committing a sin versus “practicing” sin in a future sermon, but suffice it to say now that John is talking about patterns of behavior. He has admitted in 1:8-10 that as believers we will fall into sin and need to confess those sins, but here he points out that this sin will not characterize our lives. In one of many such passages, Paul writes this:
1 Corinthians 6:9-10 Or do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who practice homosexuality, nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers will inherit the kingdom of God.
Have you committed any of these sins? If you have, does that mean that you have lost your salvation? No, if you are saved your sins, past, present, and future are covered by the blood of Christ. But if you are saved, those should not characterize your life. Either you are a Christian, or you are an adulterer. If you excuse your sin and say “you’ll have to excuse me, that’s just the way I am” then you are denying your salvation. Look at what Paul writes in the next verse:
1 Corinthians 6:11 And such were some of you. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.
I imagine that those believers in Corinth still committed sins, just like I do. We all may have that sin which “easily besets us”. But sanctification should be progressing. If you still are living at the same moral level as ten years ago, then your faith is questionable. You should have been washed. You should have been sanctified. But you say “that’s just the way I am”. “I’m just an angry person”. I had one person years ago say that they were angry all the time because they were a redhead (not a family relation). One podcaster who identifies as a Christian decided to stop throttling his foul language on his show recently using the justification “it’s the way I was raised – everybody cussed all the time”. But if you say “I’m just a <blank>” instead of “I used to be a <blank> but now I am a Christian so I am trusting Jesus to help me stop <blanking> because that’s not who I am anymore” then you can have assurance. Faith alone saves, but faith that saves is not alone. It is impossible for someone who is saved not to be changed. If we are in Christ we are “a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.” (2 Co 5:17). As James observed:
Show me your faith apart from your works, and I will show you my faith by my works.” And “For as the body apart from the spirit is dead, so also faith apart from works is dead.” (James 2:18b, 26)
II Be Who God Says You Are (3:1):
These first two verses were rather somber, but in the next verse John begins to marvel:
1 John 3:1 See what kind of love the Father has given to us, that we should be called children of God; and so we are. The reason why the world does not know us is that it did not know him.
Behold! John begins. ‘Stop and listen! What I am about to say is mind boggling! If your mind is not blown by the type of love that the Father has given to us, you are not paying attention!’ Ask yourself, have I ever marveled at the fact that the fact that God not only saved me but adopted me into his family? Seriously – don’t take it for granted. Be amazed! We become his children? The Greek word John uses here, potapos, that is translated as “how great a love” or “what manner of love” or “what kind of love”, is an interesting word that literally reads as “from what country (or place)”. It is a type of love foreign to all human experience – it is other-worldly. It is unexpected. It is (borrowing a term from the title of a book by Francis Chan) Crazy Love. It is an amazing privilege that we don’t deserve.
But wait, someone may say. Isn’t everybody a child of God? Consider the rest of the verse. John says that when God called us his children, the world no longer knew us, because it did not know Him. Paul wrote that before we had come to faith in Christ we were under God’s judgment (“children of wrath”), we were dead in our sins, and we followed the course of the devil (“the prince of the power of the air”), like the rest of mankind. (Eph 2) Our minds were blinded by the god (little ‘g’) of this world to the gospel of the glory of Christ, who is the image of God. (2 Co 4:4) Even John ends this letter with a warning that “the whole world lies in the power of the evil one.” (5:19) Jesus told the religious leaders of his day “You are of your father the devil, and your will is to do your father's desires.” So there are two families now in this world.
The truth is that membership in the family of God ended with the rebellion of our first parents in Eden. Since then, the entire kosmos – ‘the world’ as John calls it here - has been in rebellion. If it were not for God’s love that would have been the end. But even as Adam and Eve received the just deserts of their sin and were expelled from Eden, God promised a redeemer. Why? John quotes Jesus as He spoke to Nicodemus the teacher of Israel in John 3:16 “For God SO LOVED the world…” - that world that was lost and broken and hated Him – “that He gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.” Paul marvels in Romans that “…God shows his love for us in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” (Rom 5:8)
What kind of love is this? An unfathomable love! It’s a foreign love. It’s a wild and crazy love in our reckoning, but it’s our salvation. And when we join God’s family it is forever. And we are forever separated from the system of this world under Satan. As John writes later “He who is in you is greater than he who is in the world.” And Jesus will come back and take us to His home forever. He promised: “In my Father's house are many rooms. If it were not so, would I have told you that I go to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and will take you to myself, that where I am you may be also.” (John 14:2-3). If God so loved us that He calls us his children, how should we then live? Does it give you goosebumps thinking of it? It should.
So it goes to reason that if we are children of God, we should be acting like children of God. We won’t love the world or the things in the world. Because, as John has already told us in this letter, if we love the world, the love of the Father is not in us. The lusts and desires of this world are not from the Father but are from the world. And… the world is going to end, but whoever does the will of God will abide forever. So if God calls you his children, be his children. Abide in Him!
III Be Who You Are Destined To Be (3:2-3):
If your mind was not blown by the previous verse, John now opens the doors of glory and lets us have a tiny glimpse of our glorification – and it is glorious. Because we are God’s children, we will be full members of the family. But we will have to finish our transformation into the image of our Savior. How will it happen? John brings us back to the return of Christ, and he lets us know just what Jesus’ return will mean for God’s children:
1 John 3:2 Beloved, we are God's children now, and what we will be has not yet appeared; but we know that when he appears we shall be like him, because we shall see him as he is.
Just seeing Him will do it. We will get a full dose of the revelation that started the process. What do I mean by that? To understand, we must look at a similar statement in 2 Corinthians. In chapter four Paul gives us a behind the scenes picture of the transition that changes us into a Christian. In verse four he describes our past, as a part of the world, dead in our sins. In that state we are unable to see the truth because “the god of this world” had blinded our minds. We were specifically blinded to the glory of Christ, the image of the very God. But then a miracle happened – a miracle of special revelation:
2 Corinthians 4:6 For God, who said, "Let light shine out of darkness," has shone in our hearts to give the light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ.
It wasn’t the full blast of his glory, but it was enough to get the ball rolling. A full blast of the holy glorious brightness of the Son of God would be fatal to a sinful human. When Moses asked to see God’s glory, He responded, "You cannot see My face, for no man can see Me and live!" (Ex 33:20) But He gave Moses a peek at his ‘back’. Jesus revealed some of his glory to some of the apostles on the mount of transfiguration and they cowered in fear and babbled. But the internal revelation of the glory of God in the face of Christ had a great effect.
- It showed us the truth about Jesus and the gospel.
- That little, tiny, barely perceptible glimpse of the glory of God in the face of Christ made us a new creation.
- It imprinted on us so that, as his sheep, we will always know his voice and follow Him.
- Like a match at the edge of a piece of paper, it started a fire burning that cannot be quenched.
If we turn back to chapter three in 2 Corinthians we see this explicitly:
2 Cor 3:18 And we all, with unveiled face, beholding the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from one degree of glory to another. For this comes from the Lord who is the Spirit.
One who sees the glory of God in the face of Christ cannot emerge unchanged, even though it is a partial view. But it was not the full view, but that is coming. In his great chapter on love, Paul wrote these familiar words:
1 Cor 13:12 For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I have been fully known.
That is the same thing that John is describing here in verse two. We are not yet the finished product, but we should be pressing on toward that place, because if we belong to Jesus, “he who began a good work in you will bring it to completion at the day of Jesus Christ.” (Phil 1:6) If you have had the beatific vision, how will this effect your life? What will loving his appearing do to us?
1 John 3:3 And everyone who thus hopes in him purifies himself as he is pure.
Certainly we can understand this as a warning – it is certainly human for, say, for students to stop goofing off and pretend to be doing schoolwork when they hear the teacher returning to class. When we were young we would be more motivated to clean up our messes when our parents were due to come home (or, say, during the weeks before Christmas). But that is not what John is saying. Unlike the unbeliever, a Christian does not fear the coming of Christ. In this world we are like Paul, who said “who will set me free from this body of death”. Jesus coming back means total sanctification. It means losing the remaining sin and desire to sin and all of the remaining guilt and sorrow of this world and the knowledge that we are disappointing our Lord. All gone! No, there is a better analogy.
Consider rather the image of a bride. How does a bride typically prepare for a wedding? Just the dress alone is a major endeavor. For a garment that is only worn for a few hours some people will spend a small fortune. And there is a lot more. Well, when Christ returns it will be for his bride. In Revelation 19 we read
Rev 19:6-8 6 Then I heard what seemed to be the voice of a great multitude, like the roar of many waters and like the sound of mighty peals of thunder, crying out, "Hallelujah! For the Lord our God the Almighty reigns. 7 Let us rejoice and exult and give him the glory, for the marriage of the Lamb has come, and his Bride has made herself ready; 8 it was granted her to clothe herself with fine linen, bright and pure"-- for the fine linen is the righteous deeds of the saints.
Now we have a worthy picture of what John is talking about in 3:3. If we love his appearing, we will want to be ready. Because, as we read in Ephesians 5, Christ “loved the church and gave Himself up for her, so that He might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, that He might present to Himself the church in all her glory, having no spot or wrinkle or any such thing; but that she would be holy and blameless.”
If we are God’s children, the hope of seeing his face in all its glory and “being transformed into the same image from one degree of glory to another” will cause us to clean up our act because, as Paul writes “we are of good courage, and we would rather be away from the body and at home with the Lord. So whether we are at home or away, we make it our aim to please him.” (2 Cor 5:8-9) That is the inexorable mark of a believer. “We love, because He first loved us.” (1 John 4:19)
Conclusion
Remember the quote from Hamlet earlier? I actually left out the last part of what Polonius said, and it is the most important part. The full admonition was: “This above all: to thine own self be true, And it must follow, as the night the day, Thou canst not then be false to any man.” To put it in a simpler form: phonies are found out in the end. Living a lie is tiring. In the end, people will see that you are a hypocrite. The people that you go to church with, your schoolmates, your family, and especially your kids. You are not as slick as you think. But even if you manage to fool everybody, you will not fool God. “…for God [sees] not as man sees, for man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart." (1 Sam 16:7 NASB) But not just God will know – as Jesus warned: “Therefore whatever you have said in the dark shall be heard in the light, and what you have whispered in private rooms shall be proclaimed on the housetops.” (Luke 12:3)
In the end, there is one test, one source of confidence. Paul wrote about it in his last, personal, letter to Timothy right before his martyr’s death:
2 Timothy 4:6-8 6 For I am already being poured out as a drink offering, and the time of my departure has come. 7 I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith. 8 Henceforth there is laid up for me the crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous judge, will award to me on that day, and not only to me but also to all who have loved his appearing.
This crown, the crown of righteousness (not our righteousness, but Christ’s), is given to all who abide in Christ to the end, John calls them “overcomers”. John puts it this way in chapter five: “…everyone who has been born of God overcomes the world. And this is the victory that has overcome the world--our faith.” (1John 5:4) What gets us to the end? Loving his appearing.
Are you living in the light of the moment when you see the face of Jesus and become like Him? Do the attractions of this earth “become strangely dim in the light of His glory and grace.” Do you pray, like John at the end of the book of Revelation, “Amen! Come Lord Jesus!”? If so, be yourself. To thine own self (the transformed, spirit-filled, God-obeying, joyfully-evangelizing, sin-hating, righteous-acting, neighbor-loving, scripture-consuming newly-created self) be true!
If not, don’t be yourself. Come to Jesus in faith and become someone who will not shrink away from Him in shame at his coming. Be that guy! For that guy, the future is so bright that – well, we won’t need shades there. We will see his face and shout “glory”!